1 boat 2 holes...

no point saving a relationship if only one party is putting effort in...true?



but the thing is, when we are so in love, sometimes we dont even realize that suddenly the relationship has become one-sided..

we will be in denial, thinking that if we were to somehow change in certain ways, the other party would want us back..

we will give excuses for everything we think he does wrong and try to justify that its nothing, but in fact deep down we are more and more suspicious...

or maybe we try to apologize and try to win the other party's heart back..

well sometimes it does the trick but that will have to depends on the severity of the problem of the relationship cos every case is different and unique on its own..

but the thing is, when one side has already gave up on the relationship, there's no point in saving it already, just imagine there is two holes on the boat on each end and youre the only one that is trying close one of the hole, the other one will still cause the boat to sink...

and if youre the one that has fallen out of love, please do tell the other partner as soon as possible cause there is no point wasting your own time and his...

chinese direct translation: long pain why not short pain..