boyfriend criteria is super duper important...!!

when we are vulnerable...

when im vulnerable...

vulnerable in the sense when we broke up, there is a hole, a void there that needs to be filled...

you will try everything and anything to fill that emptiness..

sometimes to the extent of not thinking about the consequences..

and thats what happen to me...

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i rush into things too fast...

i should really see it thoroughly before making a decision..

but sometimes we dont really think..

sometimes we just go with the feel, the in the moment feel... and assume that its the best thing to do at the moment..

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well, im wrong.. i mean, i WAS wrong...

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i thought that criteria is not important..

knowing that no one is perfect...

but to think of it..

why the hell did i come up with a list of criterias anyway...???

so..

after analyzing thru what just happened in my life so far...

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they say love is blind, maybe you can disregard your criteria list kinda thing for the time being but not for long la...

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lets say when we grow older.. and if we(the couple) fought or get into argument or anything... or maybe when the sex died or some shit...

and we needed some time off...

we will tend to think about the other person...

SO....

for example if he doesnt meet your list of criteria...

you will be like: WHAT THE HELL AM I DOING WITH HIM?!?!?!

but ..

if lets say he fits the criteria then at least: HM.... I THINK WE CAN DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.. AND MAYBE MAKE HIM FALL ALL OVER FOR ME AGAIN OR VICE VERSA...

... at least the criteria is there already...

so...

what i learn from this lesson is:

Before getting into a relationship, always ask yourself this, is he what you are looking for? why do you wanna get into the relationship? are you like rushing? is he gonna be your ex's replacement? DOES HE MEET YOUR CRITERIA?????????????????????!!!!!!!!

haha...

anyway... not everyone has got a list and im not saying that you need one but its quite handy actually! lolllll

oh yea...

about that rebound guy....

we are ok already...

he accepted the fact that we cant be together anymore..

and..

yea...

we remain as friends lor...

haha...

the funniest thing that happened today was like he said this to me:

WHO ASK YOU TO CUT YOUR HAIR LA!!!! make yourself so hot, i havent even finish enjoying it yet... LOLLLLLLLL!!

seriously make me laugh my ass off! lollll...

forever young and cute,

tuls 
ps. i missed out the main-est criteria, not bottom in bed...  :) luckily leo-nut reminded me, how could i forget leh?!?!!