what type of ex are you?!?!
im the type who cant make friends with the ex i think...
at first i thought that i could, even though we separate thru a mutual understanding, no one dumping nobody..
i thought its gonna be like : oh now we are friends, can talk like normal... laalalala..
bukan lor..
dont think i can..
everything he does...
anyone he meets..
anywhere he goes...
if i dapat tau i will feel the tingling uneasy sensation in me..
maybe it will fade with time..
1 year? 2 years?
what if after n-years he end up with someone else?
hm...
haha...
i better not find out cos i dont think it will do me any good..
so its just best to cut off all communications with him...
yes..
i know youre reading this now...
hm...
i just need the space i think..
hope that you understand..
im like literally avoiding you now..
i hid your fb updates from my news feeds...
hm...
im sorry...
i need this..
maybe for awhile..
but its better la..
at least im not crying anymore.. haha..
boo ya!! :)
so...
DO YOU CUT OF ALL TIES?
or
YOU PRESERVE WHATS LEFT AND BE FRIENDS WITH HIM?
I cut all of mine.. Facebook, twitter, phone number.. Really helps for me.. Dont even think about him anymore. =DD
ReplyDeleteI cut all, I block his Facebook, and all stream tho he sms me at random time. I still send him postcard, it's a one way communication in a way like you let yours read your blog. specially after things went ugly after he betrayed my feeling I can never see him the same way again
ReplyDeleteBeen a virgin, I don't know XD But if it happens someday, I would react just like u since I'm not that strong to see him with anyone else than me
ReplyDeleteTo soul232.. im still a virgin too what.. haha!
ReplyDeleteI cut off all ties till I'm completely over him. And, if we both still want to be friends after that, then sure why not.
ReplyDeletei deleted my fb account, i deleted all the numbers, all the addresses, all records, all photos, all traces of anything that reminds me of him... but no use lor... cos i already memorize the key things about him in my head. but yah, i know understand what you mean. it is symbolic and it has that cathartic feel. take care. it will take time, but at least u know you are moving in the direction that you hope you want to move.
ReplyDeleteand my experience tell me this - if you have loved someone so deeply before, you will never ever get over him. instead, the more you try to push him out of your memory, the more he'll stay and the more he havoc he'll create. so, the best is to accept that it is over / or that you have wanted to move on, and than keep him in a nice warm corner of your heart and let him sleep there. keep him there as a nice piece of memory and appreciate him for all the love he has taught you to love and to be able to appreciate.
ReplyDeleteYeah sometimes cutting anything that has to do with him out is the most effective way of moving on..
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ReplyDelete*hugs*
ReplyDeleteI guess the only relationship I had isn't that deep to me afterall.. I block him not because it's hurt but it's a little disturbing to see his name.
ReplyDeletethe thing is , my ex still wants to be good friends , but i terasa pedas ...
ReplyDelete*hugs*
ReplyDeletei am the kind who will direct msg/call him and demand y he block me cuz i think its like giving up everything we had over the time. >_<
i have this idea that there is nothing wrong in being friends with ex-es
*emo*
ReplyDeletein the end we skyped last night and talk things out.. haha.. as usual i cried again.. but somehow.. hm...
ReplyDeletewe are still friends...
i just miss him too much..
sorry for all the drama..
i should be fine after this... :)
ok smile everyone!! especially you jason!!