t u l s

t u l s

Saturday, February 4, 2012

relationship question..

so youre a very low profile person, you dont have much of gay friends and youre kinda closeted and not out..

will you date

1. someone that is as the same status as you, low profile, closeted, doesnt have much gay friends..

or

2. someone that is popular, has lots of gay friends, quite out in the scene, experienced...

and why?!?!

xoxo
tuls
 

20 comments:

  1. I will date anyone who want me..beggar can't choose lo =P hahahaha...if i did have choice, i pick #1 since it be hard to maintain it with someone that is popular and want to let the world knows bout the relationship unless i have the guts to face the consequences >_<

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  2. For me, if I like that person very much then nothing else matters.

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  3. so hard to choose, better don't date bah LOL

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  4. I'll pick #1. true love is the most important thing. If i love that guy very much, nothing else really matters :)

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  5. hmm for this type of guy, he should pick someone who is more similar (no. 1).

    Coz if they date a no.2, over time the relationship will get more strained... things like the closeted guy feeling uncomfortable hanging out in public with a bunch of openly gay peeps, fear of being exposed or outed by his friends or family. As for the guy who is no.2, he might get frustrated over time as to why his bf is so secretive about his sexuality and not embracing who he really is....

    But even if both guys are the same type, the relationship is still hard... because anything involving more than 1 person gets complicated... feelings and preferences, and ego... all that shit..... that's why sometimes I think we are all better off alone. :P

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    1. all the single ladies, all the single ladies... now put your hands up!! :)

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  6. i will date whoever i am comfortable with and who is sensitive about me and makes the effort to make me comfortable.

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  7. #1..
    cos i tak kuasa nak layan all his frens.. i'm not only low profile, but anti social at the same time .. can die horr? lol ;p

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    1. erm... cannot die, its just you being you la.. hahahahaahah... then your bf/potential bf will have to try to accept you lor :)

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  8. #1, it's true that opposite attracts, but have to be kept within same page

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  9. we are in the #1.
    he only has one gay buddy, i ... do not have 1. :)

    omg. alan yun is my biggest crush ever. i saw him few time at restaurant. he is so tall and handsome and HAWT!!!of course i like EV.C too

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    1. hahahahaha.. he is Mr Young and Cute number 1 in conjunction of Young and Cute month February! :) so huggable i can die in his arms/chest...

      EV.C is also mine, you have your lazy enough ok... shoo shoo... lollllllllllll

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  10. you didnt put "YOUNG AND CUTE" in your post today LOL!!!!

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  11. thanks for everyone's feedback, it is much appreciated :)

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  12. Either way doesn't really matter :)

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  13. hmmm...hard to answer la between the two. for me, chemistry is the decideing factor - if we can get along and we find each other attractive ;)

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  14. I'd prefer someone who's like me; pretty much out in public. Holding hands, kisses on cheeks, etc.

    It's cuz I've grown tired of hiding my sexual orientation after all these years. Ppl say it's dangerous, but what the heck. Love should be stronger than fear!

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    1. i really love that :) *hugs*.. i miss you ....

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  15. i would say... same as me??? like... depends also la... can't expect if suddenly if ngam key but because ur not out and he's out... then you dowan...

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