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Friday, September 14, 2012

1 boat 2 holes...

no point saving a relationship if only one party is putting effort in...true?



but the thing is, when we are so in love, sometimes we dont even realize that suddenly the relationship has become one-sided..

we will be in denial, thinking that if we were to somehow change in certain ways, the other party would want us back..

we will give excuses for everything we think he does wrong and try to justify that its nothing, but in fact deep down we are more and more suspicious...

or maybe we try to apologize and try to win the other party's heart back..

well sometimes it does the trick but that will have to depends on the severity of the problem of the relationship cos every case is different and unique on its own..

but the thing is, when one side has already gave up on the relationship, there's no point in saving it already, just imagine there is two holes on the boat on each end and youre the only one that is trying close one of the hole, the other one will still cause the boat to sink...

and if youre the one that has fallen out of love, please do tell the other partner as soon as possible cause there is no point wasting your own time and his...

chinese direct translation: long pain why not short pain..

15 comments:

  1. All sort of excuses will pop out n u never realise u r such imaginative...

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    1. haha... yup...
      every little thing you do wrong would be an excuse.. haha... wanna look at other guys also cannot.. just be blind!! lollllll

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  2. yes, it only helps if both are working on the same glory hole...hihi, sorry, this is serious topic but i´m being silly.

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  3. Aiyoh, initially quick glance I thought I read 1 hole, 2 .... Hahahhaha!

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  4. The Chinese have a proverb for everything.

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    1. the boat reach the dock automatic straight! :)

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  5. When I first saw the title, I was certain it had some sort of sexual reference haha :P

    Speaking of relationships and knowing when something should come to an end, this comes to mind:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WA4iX5D9Z64

    It's been playing in my head a lot lately :P

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    1. i know im hamsap all the time but hahahaha... lol.. im so sexless now omgosh!! so rare!!!

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  6. :( *hugs*

    you will find your new boat soon, i hope

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