the mentality of most of them are like as though they are sad that they are still virgins...
if i was a virgin, i would be so proud... *hand gesture: a wave with 5 fingers pointing out*
to all the virgins out there, dont think youre the last and only virgins left in the community!!
up to now, 28% of the vote on the poll to the right states that they are virgins.. the percentage might not reflect the real life scenario but it can give a rough estimation that virgins out there are still abundant..
youre not losing out as a virgin...
once you lose it, youre not gonna get it back..
why do you want to lose it so badly?!?!
youve waited lets say 20 years or 30 years, cant you wait a lil longer?
so what if everyone out there is havin sex and youre not?!?!
so what if they brag about their sex life??!! they might just be lying, they might just do it to boast their self esteem..
so what if they slept with millions of men!?!?!
its not like you cant!!
you can have 1 fling, 2 flings, 10 flings or you can be a total slut but why should you?!?!
after fling-ing, sometimes you will feel that youre dirty la, thinking that you will get some disease la, feeling jealous la, get addicted la.. all the negative stuffs.. and seriously if you dont do it right, what you feel will eventually eat you up and you will be depress after that..
but its not like you cant have sex.. just make sure its the right one...
if you were to be able to have your first with someone you love and so lucky if he is a virgin as well, both of you could just do it without helmet forever as long you stay monogamous..
thats the best thing that could happen to a couple...
thinking of it makes me jealous..
its not like you cant have it with a non virgin.. nothing wrong.. just make sure its with a helmet, you or him.. and then make sure he gets checked like every 6 months or so..
the decision is in your hands..
you decide what you want to do with your life..